No rose, no diamond ring, that’s the simple and romantic love stories in college. The graduates have to face the approaching of June, a time to farewell their beloved. When their future is confronted with love, which one is more important? What will the lovers do in June?
沒有玫瑰的芬芳，沒有鑽戒的世俗，這就是大學戀情——純情而唯美。畢業生不得不面臨六月的來臨，也就是向心愛的人道別的時刻。當前途與愛情一同遭遇未來，該如何取捨？六月裏的戀人會怎麼做呢？
Don’t cry, my baby
There are so many love stories in college. If the lovers met each other by note passed, the story was called “note love”; if they knew each other in fast food restaurant, then “fast food love”; if they became lovers in a picnic, then “picnic love”. Liu Bing got to know Xiao Yu through QQ chat, and they got the so-called “QQ love”.
Their love story started at the end of 2nd Grade. Liu failed again in CET4 test and felt very upset. So he entered an Internet cafe near the school to kill time. While he was roaming about on the net, a stranger asked him through QQ, “May I chat with you?” Then he began chatting with him or her. Liu poured his trouble out and the other side appeased him patiently and asked him not to be discouraged, for there was still chance. After that, they promised to come to chat at 8 every day and it lasted for a week. Liu felt very happy. On the seventh day, the other side asked him, “Do you want to see me?” Liu typed “Yes!” without any hesitation. “Then you can turn your head back.” And Liu saw a lovely girl, whose name is Xiao Yu.
However, with the approaching graduation they also face a difficult choice. Xiao Yu is a local girl and her home is in Wuhan. While Liu Bing comes from Xi’an. They are both the only child in their family. Their parents aren’t against their being together, but both wish their kid being at home. They quarreled about the orientation furiously and the focus of their conflict always was which city they would choose. Xi’an or Wuhan? They were up a gum tree and couldn’t come to terms.
Finally, Liu and Xiao Yu went to the Internet cafe and they were still back to back this time. When Liu typed out “Let’s break up”, Xiao Yu couldn’t restrain her tears any more.
Still a long way to go
Chen Li has been unhappy recently. With the coming of graduation, she’s become even more depressed. She and her boyfriend Jia Hao don’t have a special story; they got to know each other in the library. Both of them enjoy learning and staying in the library. They would go to cinema or walk on the streets at weekends. Three years have passed quietly. They promised to take the postgraduate exam to Beijing at the 3rd grade. Unfortunately, Chen Li failed because of 2 points margin in English.
Jia Hao wanted Chen to go to Beijing with him and take exam there. Considering the economic condition, Chen thought it would be better to stay on campus. On the one hand, the living expense is lower here. On the other hand, she is familiar to the surroundings and can set her heart at studies.
At night, thinking that her lover would leave for Beijing, Chen Li’s tears fell down her cheeks silently, making her pillowslip wet all over. Although Jia Hao encouraged her over and over again that she would succeed at the second try and they would reunion in Beijing, however, he said so at the last time. Will their love still go on in case she fails?
A new life for us
Different from those sorrowful lovers, Ye Qing is like a happy bird flying in and out of her dormitory. She and her boyfriend were in the same cLASS in high school. Fortunately they both came to Beijing though not in the same university. They’re not far from each other, although they can’t be very much in love every day like other love birds. Ye Qing feels contented that they can spend weekends together. Sometimes, Ye Qing would call her boyfriend and asked him to see her in half an hour and bring some snacks passingly.
Her boyfriend majors in the pop Communication. He has been employed by a well-known communicating corporation in Shenzhen. Ye Qing hasn’t found a satisfying job, but they’ve planed that she also goes to Shenzhen to hunt a job. As a major in Economic and Trade English, Ye thinks it not difficult in finding a job such as secretary or assistant. As far as buying house and car, she told us secretly, “He promised that I needn’t consider that kind of things.”
To the moment they have enough time to wile away. Ye has decided it was time to make up for the past 4 years’ loss of romance. Now they’ve been shopping around, going to movies and playing badminton every day. Seeing her boyfriend being “tortured”, Ye felt as happy as a princess in fairy tales.
Point of view
Hu Juan, graduate of 2002
My love came to the end with the coming of graduation. Nobody could taste my sorrow at that time. I felt I lost the man I loved most in the world. Such is not the fact. I worked, fell in love with another guy and then got married. Looking back on my love in college, I found that we were just in the same camp on entertainment. While my husband and I are living our lives.
Liu Xiaoming, graduate of 2003
I’ve been married. Of course, my wife was my girlfriend in the university. We had been in love for 3 years. Compared with other husband and wife, we feel it a superiority to own each other’s past. We would talk about our university life and recall dribs and drabs. Whenever we recollect together, we could feel each other’s heartbeat. And the expression in our eyes would become very gentle. The beautiful memory will always nourish our marriage.
Li Rong, senior
It’s enough that each love starts with a beautiful beginning. As for whether it will come to an end, I feel it unnecessary to think too much. Love out of campus doesn’t always have a happy ending. Therefore, when love comes, we should enjoy the pleasure of loving. When love comes to an end, we could also taste its grief of parting. Tears taste sweet as long as you love your life.
Wang Qin, senior
I don’t have a boyfriend, but some boys are wooing me. I feel they’re not my cup of tea, so I refused. I have a wish that they could give me a hug before I leave by train when I graduate. I admire those who are in love on campus and at the same time I felicitate myself on not choosing at random. During the four years in university, as long as you live in earnest, you won’t regret, whether you own love or not, whether your love has future or not.
畢業了，該分手了
寶貝，別哭
校園裏上演着那麼多的愛情故事。如果戀人通過紙條表白愛情，就被稱爲“白條之戀”；如果他們在快餐店裏相識、相戀，就叫“快餐之戀”；如果是在野炊時相愛，當然就是“野炊之戀”了。劉冰是通過QQ聊天認識小雨的，也就是所謂的“QQ之戀”。
他們的故事開始於大二下半學期。剛開學，劉冰在四級考試中掛了，沒有通過，他非常沮喪，就來到學校附近的網吧打發時間。正當他在網上神遊時，突然QQ上有人問a他：“可以和你聊聊嗎？”劉冰就和她聊了起來，其實他還不知道對方是男是女。劉冰將自己的苦惱一傾而出，對方就耐心地開導他，說別灰心，還有機會呢。此後，有一個星期，他們約定每天8點來聊天，劉冰覺得很開心。到了第7天，對方問劉冰：“想見面嗎？”劉冰沒有任何猶豫地打下一個字：“想！”對方說：“那你就回頭吧！”於是，劉冰轉身就看到了那個可愛的女孩，小雨。
然而，面對畢業，他們卻不知道如何選擇。小雨的家就在武漢本地，而劉冰來自於西安。作爲家裏的獨生子女，雙方父母不反對他們在一起，但都希望兒女能回到自己的身邊。他們倆爲了畢業後的去向問題吵翻了天，矛盾的焦點是“要留在哪個城市？”。選擇西安，還是選擇武漢，兩人犯難了，而且誰都不肯讓步。
最後，劉冰和小雨又去網吧上網聊天，依然是背對背。當劉冰打出“我們分手吧”幾個字後，小雨的眼淚再也忍不住了。
路漫漫其修遠兮
晨麗最近鬱鬱寡歡，看着畢業的日子一天天逼近，越來越無精打采。她和男朋友賈皓的故事沒有什麼特別的，就是在圖書館認識的。兩個愛學習的人，最大的樂趣就是泡圖書館，然後在週末去看看電影，逛逛街。三年下來，倒也平淡。大三時他們就約定一起考研到北京，然而晨麗卻因英語2分之差落榜了。
賈皓鼓勵晨麗和他一起去北京，然後在北京專職考研。然而考慮到兩人的經濟狀況，晨麗還是覺得留在學校再考比較合適，一方面這裏的生活費用相對較低，再者自己也熟悉這裏的環境，能安心學習。
夜裏想着自己心愛的人就要遠赴北京了，晨麗的眼淚就無聲無息地流出來了，枕巾被打溼了一大片。儘管賈皓一再鼓勵她，說她第二次一定會考上的，那時他們就會在北京相聚。可是，第一次考研時賈皓就是這麼鼓勵她的，萬一她第二次還沒考上，那麼他們的愛情會怎麼樣呢？
新生活在向我們招手
和那些悲傷的戀人不同，葉晴快樂地像只小鳥，整天從宿舍飛進飛出。她和男友是高中同學，雖然大學聯考沒考到同一所學校，但幸運的是都考到了北京，而且兩個學校也相距不遠。雖然不能像別的戀人一樣天天卿卿我我，但能在一起快樂地度過週末，對葉晴來說已經很滿足了。有時候，實在忍不住，葉晴就給男友打電話，讓他半小時內立即趕到，並且帶點零食過來。
男友學的是炙手可熱的通訊工程，已經被深圳一家有名的通訊企業錄取。雖然葉晴還沒有找到工作，但他們已經計劃好了，就是葉晴也去深圳，然後在深圳找工作。由於學的是經貿英語，葉晴相信找個祕書、助理之類的工作還是沒有問題。至於以後買房子、買車子，她偷偷告訴我們：“他已經答應不用我考慮了！”
正好畢業前這一段時間有大把的時間可以揮霍，葉晴決定把過去4年的浪漫損失彌補回來，天天拉着男友逛商場、看電影、打羽毛球，看着男友被折磨的樣子，葉晴幸福得像傳說中的公主。
◆觀點
扈娟 02屆畢業生
我的愛情隨着畢業而終結，當時的感傷沒有人能體會，感覺天底下最愛的人就這樣失去了。事實上不是這樣的，我工作了，然後戀愛、結婚。現在回過頭來審讀大學時代的感情，發現那時的我與他，不過是“玩樂”上的志同道合；而與現在的先生，則是生活上的志同道合。
劉小明 03屆畢業生
我已經結婚了，老婆當然是大學熱戀三年的女友了。我覺得我們比起其他夫妻最大的優勢就是擁有對方的過去，隔段時間我們不由自主就會去談論大學時光，回憶那時的點點滴滴。每當此時，都能感應到對方的心跳，彼此注視的眼神也變得格外柔軟。美好的回憶，將滋養我們以後的婚姻之花。
李蓉 大四學生
每一段戀情都以美好開端，這就夠了。至於有沒有結果，我覺得沒必要想那麼多。社會上的愛情，也不一定因爲美好就有結果啊。所以，愛情來了，我們就享受愛的歡樂；愛情走了，我們就體驗愛的離愁。只要熱愛生活，淚水也是甜的。
王琴 大四學生
我沒有男朋友，不過追求我的男生倒有幾個，我覺得他們不適合我，所以一直拒絕着。我有一個奢望，希望畢業時上車的那一刻，能得到他們的一個擁抱。我羨慕那些擁有校園愛情的同學，也爲我自己的寧缺勿濫喝彩。大學四年，用心去過了，就無怨無悔，不論有沒有愛情，不論愛情有沒有未來。
心酸的浪漫
1.不管你曾經多麼內向，你一定要在全班同學面前，認認真真地講一次話，或者唱一支歌，即使你和開學時一樣，再介紹一回你自己。
2.拜訪一回你最尊敬的老師，在畢業時，認真地記住一條關於人生的經驗。
3.在一個太陽還沒有升起來的早晨，去操場跑一次步，和那些生猛的大一新生們比較一下懶覺睡多了後體力上的差距。
4.在宿舍裏不要有類似於寫“某某到此一遊”的行爲。
5.下定決心，班集體的活動這次一定不會藉故溜走——如果還有的話。
6.很認真地穿一次西裝(套裝)，看看自己和4年前，變化的地方在哪裏？
7.花一個下午的時間，認真地整理一次自己的書箱，哪些是可以留的，哪些是不要了的。在某本書裏，是不是看見了一張陌生已久的紙條，或者是某人的名字。
8.男生整理衣櫃的時候，記得把你的球衣送給你的學弟，CD送給學妹，遊戲碟記得自己帶走。
9.記得留下每一個你覺得應該是朋友的聯繫方式，然後把你新單位的電話給他們。
10.終於要走了，再剪一次發，讓自己嶄嶄新新地離開，然後，嶄嶄新新地開始。
11.記得歸還你的證件，陪伴了你4年的桌子、椅子和凳子——我們不提倡你寧願罰錢也要留下你的圖書證、學生證、醫療證、食堂飯卡……但我們對此表示理解。
12.論文答辯可能是你人生當中最後一次的課堂作業了，請你認真地書寫每一個字。
13.和你一起睡了4年的牀，一定要記得和它合一張影。
14.儘可能地送走每一個你能送的同學，你要明白，他們是你4年的同學，他們中的某人，也許是你最後一次能見到了。
No rose, no diamond ring, that’s the simple and romantic love stories in college. The graduates have to face the approaching of June, a time to farewell their beloved. When their future is confronted with love, which one is more important? What will the lovers do in June?
沒有玫瑰的芬芳，沒有鑽戒的世俗，這就是大學戀情——純情而唯美。畢業生不得不面臨六月的來臨，也就是向心愛的人道別的時刻。當前途與愛情一同遭遇未來，該如何取捨？六月裏的戀人會怎麼做呢？
Don’t cry, my baby
There are so many love stories in college. If the lovers met each other by note passed, the story was called “note love”; if they knew each other in fast food restaurant, then “fast food love”; if they became lovers in a picnic, then “picnic love”. Liu Bing got to know Xiao Yu through QQ chat, and they got the so-called “QQ love”.
Their love story started at the end of 2nd Grade. Liu failed again in CET4 test and felt very upset. So he entered an Internet cafe near the school to kill time. While he was roaming about on the net, a stranger asked him through QQ, “May I chat with you?” Then he began chatting with him or her. Liu poured his trouble out and the other side appeased him patiently and asked him not to be discouraged, for there was still chance. After that, they promised to come to chat at 8 every day and it lasted for a week. Liu felt very happy. On the seventh day, the other side asked him, “Do you want to see me?” Liu typed “Yes!” without any hesitation. “Then you can turn your head back.” And Liu saw a lovely girl, whose name is Xiao Yu.
However, with the approaching graduation they also face a difficult choice. Xiao Yu is a local girl and her home is in Wuhan. While Liu Bing comes from Xi’an. They are both the only child in their family. Their parents aren’t against their being together, but both wish their kid being at home. They quarreled about the orientation furiously and the focus of their conflict always was which city they would choose. Xi’an or Wuhan? They were up a gum tree and couldn’t come to terms.
Finally, Liu and Xiao Yu went to the Internet cafe and they were still back to back this time. When Liu typed out “Let’s break up”, Xiao Yu couldn’t restrain her tears any more.
Still a long way to go
Chen Li has been unhappy recently. With the coming of graduation, she’s become even more depressed. She and her boyfriend Jia Hao don’t have a special story; they got to know each other in the library. Both of them enjoy learning and staying in the library. They would go to cinema or walk on the streets at weekends. Three years have passed quietly. They promised to take the postgraduate exam to Beijing at the 3rd grade. Unfortunately, Chen Li failed because of 2 points margin in English.
Jia Hao wanted Chen to go to Beijing with him and take exam there. Considering the economic condition, Chen thought it would be better to stay on campus. On the one hand, the living expense is lower here. On the other hand, she is familiar to the surroundings and can set her heart at studies.